The way I see it, a wedding day is about the bride and groom, not about the guests. A lot of people wanted to have a say about what got played at my wedding but music was the one thing where no one was going poke their head in. My wife and I chose music we wanted to hear, songs that invoked good memories for us, songs that reminded of all the good times and the reasons we wanted to get married in the first place. I guess those are the songs I want to hear on someone's wedding day, I want to hear the soundtrack to their lives together.